Start here
Where do you want to start, brother?
Every man comes to Pa Bawo carrying something different. Tell us what's on your mind and we'll show you where to begin: the right group, a challenge, lessons and people to talk to. You can change it any time.
Your path
Grief and loss
Join to save your path, join groups and track your progress. Only your nickname is ever shown.
Join Pa BawoA counsellor can talk with you privately, for free.
1 counsellor is on duty now. Replies usually come within the hour.
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Join a group
Men facing the same things, with a trained host. Online groups keep you anonymous; WhatsApp circles show your number to members.
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Take a challenge: Lankhula: speak up and lead
Lead yourself, stand with your brothers, lead your home, lead your community.
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Learn and use the tools
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Join a live session
On Zoom, Teams or Google Meet, with a counsellor, pastor, sheikh or group host. Keep your camera off if you like.
After the Town Hall: what now?
Thu 26 Nov, 19:00 · ZoomSave a place - 5
Have someone in your corner
Ask for a mentor: an experienced man who checks in with you once a month. Or talk to Kondwani any hour.