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Faith leader and counsellor toolkit

Why men stay silent

Understanding what keeps men from asking for help.

  • Shame: "A real man provides and copes."
  • Fear of gossip: worry that what they share will spread.
  • No words: many men were never taught to name feelings.
  • Stigma: fear of being seen as weak, or of being mocked.

Men open up more when they're doing something together, when they hear other men go first, and when help is framed as strength and leadership.

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